May 26, 2011
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A Complaint Towards Stupid Girlfriends
Lately I can’t help but be bothered by the majority of women I come across. I can’t help but to overhear their conversations about their boyfriends, and really? I’m astonished by how hypocritical a lot of the female population is. Most women want to make their boyfriends jealous, yet they throw a shit fit when their boyfriend does the same thing. Hell, sometimes their boyfriend isn’t even trying to make them jealous. It’s an object or friend that they’re not okay with them being around.
For instance, I know a guy who’s girlfriend made him delete all of the females off of his facebook. If you can’t handle the fact that your boyfriend has friends that just happen to have vaginas and breasts then you really need to get over yourself. Nobody wants to date an over controlling she-bitch. If you can have friends that are males, then why not give your boyfriend the same freedom? If the answer is because you don’t trust him, then why are you even with him in the first place?
Also, I know a popular topic is porn. A lot of women feel that it’s wrong for their boyfriends to watch it for masturbating purposes. That’s just annoying all in itself. If you can masturbate then why can’t he? (assuming you do so) I’m sure a lot of you have vibrators and etc, so why not let your boyfriend watch porn? It’s not like he’s having sex with these women. He’s basically looking at these women as sex objects, which is a porn actress’ job in the first place. If you’re thinking, “looking at people solely for sexual attraction is wrong.” that’s already a hypocritical statement. We all look at people in some form because of attractive features, whether it’s attracting us sexually or not. The fact of the matter is he likes you for you, not a sex object, so why even get jealous over something so trivial? If your boyfriend wants to masturbate let him do so, if you’re so upset about it maybe you should loosen up and do it too..because if you’re upset over something so minute you need to let out some frustrations.
Back to the topic over women making their boyfriends jealous. Do you really want to be that immature? Exactly what is this going to accomplish except maybe a fight? There are some girls I know that will flirt with other guys, or talk about how good looking a guy is to make their man jealous. Why spend so much time and effort trying to make him jealous when you could be using that time to have a genuinely fun time? I just don’t understand. I bet if your boyfriends would do that you would be having an argument with him or calling him out.
I just really don’t understand girls like this. Could someone explain the appeal in this?
Comments (2)
Why does gender have anything to do with it?
FYI my boyfriend has an amazing problem with me talking to ANYONE else except him. He gets mad if someone even says hi to me, let alone if they call me cute or whatnot. However he doesn’t watch porn, he says he’s only ever been attracted to me, which is good. However, I watch porn sometimes just for the scenario and he gets mad at me for it, but that’s beside the point.
Get over yourself, gender doesn’t dictate personality, action, or thoughts like the ones you seem to associate with women. I agree that most women I’ve met in my lifetime are stupid, which is why I often wish I was male; it’s just too bad that most women decide to live by conforming to social stereotypes of what a woman should be, which in my opinion is total bullshit. Same with men, they shouldn’t have to conform to what society says their gender has to. However, I’ve met my fair share of dumb males, too. This should illustrate that females and males can be dumb, smart, controlling, jealous, etc. Gender isn’t the important influence, there. It’s how they’re brought up, how they see the world, heck, I don’t think that should be related to gender, society just seems to assume that it is. Being born with tits and a cooch makes me somehow annoying, or stupid? Seriously, I hate people who think that a gender means anything. It really doesn’t. Stay free.
@Em. - I appreciate your opinion
realize, I wrote this in 2011. Opinions change throughout time, and blogging is a form of venting and expressing opinions. So before telling me to get over myself, maybe you should assume that I had an annoying day or was going through something involving an annoying woman and decided to write a general blog about it. I agree, there are obsessed annoying men, and perhaps I will write a blog on that, in fact, I think I will.
Actually I remember writing this blog now. One of my friends was freaking out about her boyfriend watching porn. Instead of being a big cunt to her face I was a cunt in my blog instead. Problem?
xoxo
But thanks for hating me doll face